Some Words On A Lost Art
By The Humbled Females Community
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Licking, sucking, blowing, stroking?
Throating, kissing, swallowing, choking?
We asked our community members to share their affinity for Cock worship, and received some very enlightening answers.
"I love everything about cock. I love watching it go from flaccid to erect because of my attentions. I love the feeling of the curve of the head against the roof of my mouth. I love the sensual slide of the shaft through my lips and the little shudder that results when it hits the back of the throat. I love for my man to grab handfuls of my hair and fuck my face, the harder the better, until tears stream down my face and he is so worked up with it that he doesn't care if I can breathe, my mouth is just his toy—an object for his pleasure."
"In my opinion, the most wonderful thing about the act of cock worship is the selflessness part. The point where you get into pleasing so much, that you entirely forget about your own pleasure. In fact, you begin to gain pleasure just out of giving it. That is the best thing about cock worship, and probably one of the things I most enjoyed learning about it.
I think the hardest technique I've learned over time is deepthroating. I think that it is an awesome feeling; it really exemplifies that selflessness because you literally have to give up your breath for that person, for their pleasure. I love this part of cock worship. I love every thing from tiny kissing, to straight face fucking."
"For a "proper" engagement, I start at the tip of an earlobe, and cover his whole body with licks, kisses and hand strokes...except that his genitals only are gently caressed by my hands as I pass by, and perhaps nuzzled with my cheek as I kiss his inner thigh. When I reach his feet, I increase the intensity of the oral activity, kissing, licking, sucking and nibbling, very slowly, making my way back up. I love to gently suck and lick on his balls before going up the shaft, butterfly kisses and licks all the way, with my hands constantly stroking and kneading his body, cupping his nipples and caressing his arms and hands.
When I reach the tip, I kiss and lick and ever so gently suck at just the head, while my tongue pulls it in, finding all the hidden areas of sensitivity. Only then do I bring him fully into my mouth and begin what is traditionally considered "oral sex". Usually, by this point we are both so hot and aroused, that it is almost painful...his cock is hard and velvety smooth, and fills my mouth, as I take more and more in, with each movement, each time pulling off almost to the end, with my lips and tongue caressing the head, swirling the moisture and tasting him, before sucking him deeply into my mouth again.
At the end, when it is more especially intense, I will often guide his hands into my hair, and grip his fists tightly, giving over control of what is happening and he takes over the speed and depth, fucking my face, totally filled with his cock, feeling his hands forcing himself harder, faster, and deeper, and typically we both orgasm together as he slams himself deep into my throat."
"I spent some time thinking what is in fact my favorite thing about cock and the answer is the cock itself. I love the way the word rolls in my mouth (phallus, cock, dick, penis). I love how soft the skin is in my mouth and on my tongue. I love how soothing it is to the palm of my hand, and in fact in high school I convinced an ex of mine to let me hold his while I slept because it comforted me. Ah cock. Second love only to my Owner, and his is the finest I've known, but to say one cock is better than another is silly. Cock is a lovely thing in all shapes and sizes.
I believe I am in fact a talented cock worshiper, and over the years have learned to enjoy giving more than receiving. I've learned all the basic techniques of throating, using my lips to shield my teeth while I bob my head, holding my mouth open to accept a vigorous "face fuck", but my favorite is using my tongue on the sweet spot right beneath the head of the cock while using my hand to simultaneously stimulate both spots. I've found this to a be a quick way to bring a man off, and I enjoy swallowing as much as the sucking, kissing, licking, and stroking.
What I want to learn is how to orgasm while giving head with out stimulating my own genitalia. I have accomplished this once, and I hope it will happen again. I also feel, technique aside, there is nothing quite as glorious as having a man finish in my mouth. It says something about a girl if she's good at head, but it says something else if she can make a man orgasm, and I feel every girl should swallow—but that's a dissertation for another time."
"To me, oral sex is a much more intimate and subservient act than vaginal intercourse. My pleasure is completely unimportant and I exist solely to serve. According to my Lord I am very good at cock worship, and as his opinion is the only one that counts, I will say yes, I am talented. He's large but with generally good control of how big he gets (I didn't get the full cock for 6 months as I had to work up to taking him) so I enjoy seeing how large he'll let it go—the larger it gets the more he's enjoying it. Because of his size I am not able to take the whole thing unless he starts flaccid, so one thing I do frequently is kiss or lick the sides and around the base thus giving attention to a part that would otherwise be overlooked.
Once I get started, the rest of the world fades away and all that exists is the man in front of me. He'll lay on his back with me kneeling between his thighs, he'll wrap his legs around my waist, bury his hands in my hair and take me to a place of absolute peace and security. Nothing else matters, no other thoughts intrude. Feeling him come in my mouth—that sudden gush of warmth, the spasm of the muscles, the release of all the tension in his body—is a moment of pure joy."
"Deep throating is something I am currently learning. So far the best ways to accomplish this are to actually flex your throat muscle as you would when swallowing anything else; this helps with the gag reflex. If you gag to the point that your stomach turns you can pull back and continue to pleasure him with your tongue at the tip. Using your spit lubricated to work the shaft, this allows you to catch your breathe without ceasing to pleasure him. Once you have your breath, try again."
"Cock sucking in its most basic form is a beautifully submissive act. Though many have used the term "cock worship" as a synonym for cock sucking, they are not in fact the same act. Many women suck cock, however not all women who suck cock worship it as they should.
Fellatio itself is a good beginning for cock worship. If one were to look at the act they would see many similarities between it and most any form of worship. Most often when a woman sucks cock she is on her knees—a standard position for worshipping or paying homage in most religions. Cock sucking always involves the mouth, quite obviously, which is also used to utter prayer and praise for that which is greater than ones self. The woman's head is bowed, in humble submission, as she pays the respect due. If she wishes to look into the face of the man she serves she must look up in a show of respect. All of these things are necessary for an appropriate and fulfilling experience.
True worship of the cock as the symbol of the male's superiority over her should be a goal for most any submissive female. The woman should recognize herself as a being flawed by design, having a hole that requires a man to fill (it's true that they have many holes, but one in particular was designed solely to accommodate the penis) . She is incomplete and only a man can complete her. As such, she should perfect the skill of oral stimulation as a show of gratitude, submission and service to the man who would grant her completion."
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